Female genital mutilation
Posted 43 weeks 3 days ago byThis article about female circumcision in Indonesia is matter-of-fact, but heartbreaking, especially for this:
According to Lukman Hakim, the foundation’s chairman of social services, there are three “benefits” to circumcising girls. “One, it will stabilize her libido,” he said through an interpreter. “Two, it will make a woman look more beautiful in the eyes of her husband. And three, it will balance her psychology.”
It's important to note that, while this is often justified as a "religious duty" among some Muslims, there is nothing in the Koran that explicitly commands the practice. And being fair: In Indonesia, where the article was reported, the practice is less extreme than in other places.
The conclusion of the Times article makes sense:
Anthropologists, policy makers and health officials have warned against blindly judging those who practice it, saying that progress is best made by working with local leaders and opinion-makers to gradually shift the public discussion of female circumcision from what it’s believed to bestow upon a girl toward what it takes away. “These mothers believe they are doing something good for their children,” Guarenti, a native of Italy, told me. “For our culture that is not easily understandable. To judge them harshly is to isolate them. You cannot make change that way.”














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Media girl
Submitted on January 20th, 2008 by JoelYou make a good point. Please remember, though, I'm against this. Degrees of badness are still degrees of badness.
et's put the shoe on the other foot for a moment
Submitted on January 19th, 2008 by media girlLet's put the shoe on the other foot for a moment....
I wonder if we were talking about such mutilations of male anatomy, there would be discussion of which culture's mutilation practices were "less extreme" ... you know, to be "fair."
media girl
Additionally
Submitted on January 19th, 2008 by FRTN500CEOThen you must have read, or will soon, that most of the men within her culture would never even THINK about marrying a woman who's father (or closest living male relative) could not provide proof that the bride-to-be did have a circumcision.
Actually
Submitted on January 19th, 2008 by JoelI'm reading it right now. It may have primed me to be extra-sensitive to the matter.
Infidel
Submitted on January 19th, 2008 by FRTN500CEOOn my profile, I recommend the book Infidel, by Ayaan Hirsi Ali. She described this horrific experience in gruesome detail. She was a teenager living in Somalia.
The justification is just as gruesome. Where she came from, men are considered "more pure" than women. If a man is "overcome" with sexual desire for a woman, it's her fault because she didn’t cover enough of her skin or she looked at him in too much of an enticing way. This is why we hear horror stories about women getting raped, and being punished for it.
The circumcision, ultimately, will take sexual desire out of the woman as the article says.
When the article presents the quote: "Two, it will make a woman look more beautiful in the eyes of her husband," I think about the other justification that was given to her not hours after the procedure. The circumcision offers proof to a husband that his new bride is indeed, a virgin. Of course I won't go into detail about how this works but I'm sure the readers will understand. I also don't think I need to say what would happen to the wife is she was discovered not to be a virgin.
Ultimately I can't do her story any justice. I strongly recommend the book.